Hi Friends, I am writing one peom for you , please bear with me.
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TERI YAD HI MERE JEENE KA SAHARA HAI SANAM,
TUJHE MALUM NAHI KAISE BATAO TUMKO..
LAKHO HAI TERE CHAHNE WALE,
KAISE UNKI NAJRO SE CHUPU TUMKO..
TERE YAAD RAAT BHAR TADPATI HAI MUJHKO,
MAHSHOOS HOTA HAI HAR PAL, JAB TU BHOOL JAATI HAI MUJHKO…..
KHUDA KARE , KABHI MERI YAAD BHE AYE TUMKO..
TUJHKO MALUM NAHI KAISE BATAO TUMKO –1
TERI YAD HI MERE JEENE KA SAHARA HAI SANAM,
TUJHE MALUM NAHI KAISE BATAO TUMKO..
LAKHO HAI TERE CHAHNE WALE SANAM,
KAISE UNKI NAJRO SE CHUPU TUMKO..
KABHI TU BHE MERE DIL KI AWAJ KO SUN..
JAISE HO TERI CHANKATI HUYE PAYAL KI DHUN,
TERI APAYAL KI HAR KHANAK RULATI HAI DIL KO..
BATHA HUN ES INTJAR ME, KABHI TO TUM SAMJHOGE MUJHKO..
TUMKO MALUM NAHI KAISE BATAO TUMKO –2
TERI YAD HI MERE JEENE KA SAHARA HAI SANAM,
TUJHE MALUM NAHI KAISE BATAO TUMKO..
LAKHO HAI TERE CHAHNE WALE SANAM,
KAISE UNKI NAJRO SE CHUPU TUMKO..
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Thursday, 29 October 2009
Wednesday, 28 October 2009
Discover the 90/10 principle in your life !!!
It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations).What is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react.What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.How? ……….By your reaction.You cannot control a red light. but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.Let's use an example.You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.What happens next will be determined by how you react.You curse.You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus.Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour.After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the morning.Why did you have a bad day?A) Did the coffee cause it?B) Did your daughter cause it?C) Did the policeman cause it?D) Did you cause it?The answer is “D".You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.Here is what could have and should have happened.Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.Notice the difference?Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.Why?Because of how you REACTED.You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you!React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off) Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive?Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.You are told you lost your job.Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take outpour frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.The result?Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
It CAN change your life!!!
Bangalore:The Innocent Woman
Life is a big obsession but we never care about it , we always ignore good moment, we laugh if someone talk about awful incident which happen in their life. We forget God but He knows and that’s why suddenly one day we will remember that there is someone who is watching us, sending signal that beware , anything can happen any time so love this precious life.
I am going share one of horrible incident of my life. I am working in Bangalore from last 2 year and I have to catch my bus from HP petrol pump Koremangla everyday, before that I used to come in cab which was provided by my employer. That time I was in second shift and I have to pick up my cab near from Madiwal bus stop at 1:30 pm everyday.
It was a usual Friday day , I wake up , had my breakfast and was planning to take my photograph from Kodak shop near to Forum, I think, time should be approximate 1:05 Pm, After that I have to pick my Cab also, so I was starting from my room and listening music on my ipod, usually which I like to do. I was near to Madiwal bus stop and just going to pass the Madiwala bus stop, I saw some people and school children are seating on the bus stop and waiting for bus. I saw that same time one bus came and they are trying to get into the bus, I just saw them and move ahead, I believe , I was 10-20 step away from the bus stop and listen a very huge and horrible sound, I was just seating on the same place and just move back , I saw huge smoke going on and one lady was falling on earth, people were standing tro and fro and no one going near to the woman, then one guy who also injured, was weeping and calling for help , later we know that he was her husband, The woman , was died on the spot, I was felling restless and fearful. Man was weeping and blood was falling from his head. Later police came and confirm it was a bomb blast which was posted near to bus stop. Same day there are 9 blast in Bangalore which killed two people and injured many. Whenever I go to Madiwala bus stop, I often remembering the woman, later in news paper I read , the woman and her husband was living in Bangalore past few year, they were from some near places of Bangalore and come in Bangalore for work. They both working in some company and that black Friday her husband got pain in his stomach and they went to St. Joseph Hospital for some medical test, but due to less money, they were not able to carried out the test and going home to bring money for test. They were waiting for bus at Madiwala bus stop where the whole incident happening. Whenever , I am going near to that Madiwala bus stop, I often think about that day and that “Innocent women”. What was her mistake, just a bad moment. God give her peace. The happen due to bad circumstances, we don’t know what will happen tomorrow, We can not know all these only God knows , so please never forget God. I still remember that “Woman” and I think, I will always. Now a days I have to catch bus from HP petrol pump and I have to cross the bus stop everyday and I always remember that bad day, As of Now BBMP destroy that bus stop due to constructing the road but still , when ever go there, I feel that someone is laying down on earth and asking us WHAT WAS MY MISTAKE…. And left lot of question for us??
Everyday God wake up us and telling do some good work before dying but everyday we neglect His instruction, we don’t know up to what time we are here, so please care for this valuable life and pay regards to God, for giving us this beautiful, charming and splendor world to live , It is in our hand that which type of world we want to make it “PEACEFUL or FEARFUL”…Choice in our Hand.
Have a great and cheerful life….
I am going share one of horrible incident of my life. I am working in Bangalore from last 2 year and I have to catch my bus from HP petrol pump Koremangla everyday, before that I used to come in cab which was provided by my employer. That time I was in second shift and I have to pick up my cab near from Madiwal bus stop at 1:30 pm everyday.
It was a usual Friday day , I wake up , had my breakfast and was planning to take my photograph from Kodak shop near to Forum, I think, time should be approximate 1:05 Pm, After that I have to pick my Cab also, so I was starting from my room and listening music on my ipod, usually which I like to do. I was near to Madiwal bus stop and just going to pass the Madiwala bus stop, I saw some people and school children are seating on the bus stop and waiting for bus. I saw that same time one bus came and they are trying to get into the bus, I just saw them and move ahead, I believe , I was 10-20 step away from the bus stop and listen a very huge and horrible sound, I was just seating on the same place and just move back , I saw huge smoke going on and one lady was falling on earth, people were standing tro and fro and no one going near to the woman, then one guy who also injured, was weeping and calling for help , later we know that he was her husband, The woman , was died on the spot, I was felling restless and fearful. Man was weeping and blood was falling from his head. Later police came and confirm it was a bomb blast which was posted near to bus stop. Same day there are 9 blast in Bangalore which killed two people and injured many. Whenever I go to Madiwala bus stop, I often remembering the woman, later in news paper I read , the woman and her husband was living in Bangalore past few year, they were from some near places of Bangalore and come in Bangalore for work. They both working in some company and that black Friday her husband got pain in his stomach and they went to St. Joseph Hospital for some medical test, but due to less money, they were not able to carried out the test and going home to bring money for test. They were waiting for bus at Madiwala bus stop where the whole incident happening. Whenever , I am going near to that Madiwala bus stop, I often think about that day and that “Innocent women”. What was her mistake, just a bad moment. God give her peace. The happen due to bad circumstances, we don’t know what will happen tomorrow, We can not know all these only God knows , so please never forget God. I still remember that “Woman” and I think, I will always. Now a days I have to catch bus from HP petrol pump and I have to cross the bus stop everyday and I always remember that bad day, As of Now BBMP destroy that bus stop due to constructing the road but still , when ever go there, I feel that someone is laying down on earth and asking us WHAT WAS MY MISTAKE…. And left lot of question for us??
Everyday God wake up us and telling do some good work before dying but everyday we neglect His instruction, we don’t know up to what time we are here, so please care for this valuable life and pay regards to God, for giving us this beautiful, charming and splendor world to live , It is in our hand that which type of world we want to make it “PEACEFUL or FEARFUL”…Choice in our Hand.
Have a great and cheerful life….
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